Find Out How to Get a Girl to Like You!
I recently realized that most people had their first love and their most painful break up during high-school. In high-school you are mature enough to experience a full relationship, at least from sexual and emotional standpoint, so you experience it with everything in it.
If you are like me, you probably want to learn everything you can get your hands on about how to get a girl to like you, and you are probably trying everything you can in order to get that special girl to notice you. The burning desire that you feel is immense, it takes you entire body uncontrollably. You want her. You want her badly.
But has it ever crossed your mind that your desire is not that “benign”. Beautiful girls are now even more appealing to you than they were few years ago, and according to studies men reach their sexual peak at the age of 17-18 years old. Don’t you believe this is the main reason why you feel so much “in loved” with this girl? Don’t you believe this is the main reason you feel so hurt when a girl rejects you? In high-school you want a girlfriend so badly that you lose control over your other needs, and your conscious and unconscious desire to have sex overruns your rational thinking.
You may ask now: “hey, when will you tell me ‘how to get a girl to like me’?” The answer is that you can’t do much about it until your lust stops blinding you, because you will choose the woman according to your sexual impulses not because of her character. To get a girl to like you, you don’t need to put her on pedestal just because she looks good. Women don’t respect men who do that, and they never did. And when a woman doesn’t respect you, she will not like you.
If the girl you like eventually starts liking you as well, you will then want to learn more about how to make her love you. Knowing how to make a girl fall in love with you is actually knowing how to be ‘your best’ self around her. Most men are not like that around women. They are afraid of what the girl might think, and they even portray themselves as something they are not, trying to match what they think the girl wants. All this does nothing but decrease the girl’s interest in them, even if she isn’t consciously aware of this process.
Keep in mind that she is not aware of her feelings most of the times, she just feels like that you are not yourself around her. The most attractive quality a man could have is authenticity , even if you are in high-school, you are still a man so you need to act on behalf of your authenticity. Authenticity is not a big word! To be authentic means to carry yourself with all your qualities, the good and bad.
For example, if you curse on a daily basis, when you meet that high-school girl, don’t hide that side of you, thinking that she will not like you. Some women will not like that you curse, but some will like you a lot for having the guts to be yourself around her. She might even get turned on, who knows.